For me, it’s hard to imagine working a job where I don’t get out until 10 or 11 pm every night. A job where I can’t make weekend plans because I never know if something is going to drop and I am going to have to be on hand to pick up the pieces. Where making plans with my friends and family is something that can’t happen on a regular basis and my only social communications involve a phone or the internet.
I also can’t imagine a life where every day is mine by choice and I have no responsibilities (regardless of whether or not I am making income). A life where I could party all day and all night. or sleep all day. Or sit around and wait for a phone call.
I can tell you one thing though, if you fall into either of those categories there are some unnecessary challenges that will come with the territory. You can’t get all of your fulfillment/satisfaction out of one thing. Because, if that one thing should ever disappoint, it will be much harder to deal with it. If you spend all your time, kicking your ass at work and no time enjoying yourself, there will be times when you are overlooked or didn’t get a promotion that you wanted. If you don’t have the social life or outside activities to focus some time and energy on, this can be seriously depressing and damaging to your mental health. Likewise, if you are only looking for social fulfillment – you will eventually be left out of the conversation when your friends have work the next day or talk about moving up a corporate ladder or how their business is doing.
It’s important to spread your eggs out. You should have meaningful relationships and you should have a career or volunteer activity that you can also throw your efforts into. No matter what, you should be working towards something whether it’s creating content or art, etc or managing and making a household more efficient or volunteering to be part of a community garden, it’s important to be an active participant in life.
How did you establish your work life balance? Was it difficult? Thoughts? Questions? Comments? Leave below.